When we’re talking about Valentine’s Day it immediately turns to talk of chocolates and dinner dates. We don’t have a problem with either. However, while you’re celebrating the day of love, you need to start with you. If you’re not showing yourself love, what’s the point, sis? Anything else to come on that day is just icing on a already sweet cake.

Start your day with breakfast fit for a queen. You can cook it yourself or have it delivered. There may or may not have been a delivery from Denny’s made around here. A Valentine’s Day grand slam? Could be a winner.

Then indulge in some of your favorite things. Whether it’s an at home spa day giving yourself a facial steam or a good all over sugar scrub. There’s also taking a bubble bath with all those products you have but never use. Yes, it’s time to pull out the bath bombs and oils. Love on yourself.

Maybe you’d like a little wine? Have you done a virtual wine tasting? Well this could be a great time to check one out. Gather your girls and check out one of the many wineries offering tastings. They send the wine to your house and email you a zoom link for the day of the tasting. You bring the snacks to nosh on during the tasting and enjoy. Some of the wineries also host private tastings so it could be set up just for you and your friends. Get into it!

Write yourself a love letter. It’s always a good idea to remind yourself that you love yourself and why. Make sure you tell yourself how amazing you are and what you love about you. Then, save the letter. If you find yourself feeling down one of these days, pull that letter out to remind you how awesome you really are.

How do you look out for you on Valentine’s Day?